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Losing your love..

07.15.07 (12:54 pm) [edit]

I've been through it. And many of you who are reading this might have gone through it. Or, going through it. Losing your love, for no fault of yours. For just being yourself. Especially for us girls, its severe. Loosing self esteem, self confidence and at one point hating yourself for doing mistakes. And you are not sure it was a mistake at all. But you feel guilty. You even plan for revenge. But then decide that is a stupid thing to do. You just go through it.. Sometimes it takes months to forget the betrayal, sometimes years..

I was moved by this scene in this film 'Romance and Cigarettes' in which Kate Winslet talks about losing your love and then healing yourself. Mostly time does it over the years. You meet new people, new situations and then the little pieces of your soul that you lost come together. Still you feel that you have wasted so much time for that person you loved and lost.

posted by: LadyG (reply)
post date: 07.24.07 (8:57 am)

I hope that you heal soon, it will take some time to get over the pain.

posted by: Kram1000 (reply)
post date: 08.03.07 (6:22 am)

Its Hard being alive, (better than being dead though)I feel after 14 years i have finally exorcised an old heart wound. Now i ask myself why did i waste so many thousand hours on regrets when she never really cared, Thats life I can,t take it back and change it. LOL

posted by: inkspector (reply)
post date: 08.04.07 (7:52 am)

You always have to think that you are the better person when there is a breakup and never look back. As you state, you waste lots of time and energy being negative, you just have to move forward and look for all the new things life has to offer you after a break up event.

posted by: bawdy (reply)
post date: 08.05.07 (12:07 pm)

I wish I had done something wrong in my last relationship. It would make breaking up easier to accept.