Now it can be told - Rescuing Selvi (featured also in Times of India dated 17-08-2008)

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Now it can be told - Rescuing Selvi (featured also in Times of India dated 17-08-2008)
08.17.08 (7:17 pm)   [edit]
February last year I wrote an incident about how I rescued a baby gril Selvi from her alcoholic parents. The following was the post:

I BOUGHT A BABY FOR RS.500. DID I DO THE RIGHT THING?

My mentor Luise Hansen when visiting Kadalur last month, found a little baby, a girl child. A complete somalia-type under nourished baby with its alcoholic parents near a temple begging.

The mother of the baby was well and healthy. The father too was fine. They looked happy with begging and merry making. They seem to drink daily. They both were using the baby for begging. The mother pinched the baby, made it to cry and created a sense of pity for people who wanted to help them. That was how she got money. Believe me, the baby looked like a little monkey with very thin legs and hands. She looked like she was mentally retarded too.

Luise was moved and shocked and asked her if she can give the baby. The mother said, "Give me 500 rupees. You can have her". Luise and Aurelio werent prepared for this and they returned to Auroville.

The baby seemed to have apppeared sadly in Luise's dreams.

And on January 9th last month, I go with a couple of Svaram team guys, Gnanavel and Shanker to rescue the baby and admit it in a good orphanage. We got into a taxi, went to Kadalur, found the lady with the child. Took the mother and the child to an Orphanage near Ariyaankuppam. A good home for the homeless children. The person who was running the home was a young educated gentleman named Karthik. He checked the child and spoke to its mother (who just wanted to get rid of the baby for money as soon as possible!!) She said she will not ask the child back and asked us NOT to return to her at any circumstances.. What a mother! In a country where motherhood and femininity is the core strength, the most powerful bond that keeps the Indian families united...

Then after the formalities.. We promised to help the home and the child. Luise had given us some money which we gave to the home as an initial amount for the care.. We were happy that Mr.Karthik accepted the child. Later, we dropped the mother at her place and gave her Rs.500. She demanded for more. She insisted once again not to give the child back to her!! We left the place with a sigh.

Nearly after a month, I, Luise and Aurelio visited the home to see the child. Its health had improved a lot and it was smiling at us. It could recognize me and was smiling.. Seems she is not entally retarded. She still had cough though. She is safe and happy now. Her mother had called her Rajeshwari and Fatima(yes 2 names ). She had a new name now. Selvi..

Selvi now has a promising future. We are now her parents in a way.

Did we do the right thing by buying her from her mother?

---------------------That was the post----- And now..

...... It has been almost 2 years since she has been rescued. I visited the Home that she is growing. She is so happy and identifies me. She regains her health, the children's home takes care of her so well, all the children love her immensely as she is the youngest of them all. She smiles at me, plays with me and is absolutely comfortable with me. She is being supported by my Austrian friends Luise Hansen and Aurelio.

And today The Sunday Times of India has carried a story about it. I am ofcourse happy. I wanted to share that story with you all.. here is the link:http://epaper.timesofindia.co...

And here I present some unpublished pictures..


Selvi then...


Selvi now...with me

 


posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 08.17.08 (6:47 am)

What a beautiful thing you did for Selvi - I don't think she would still be alive if it wasn't for you.



posted by: OldSchool (reply)
post date: 08.17.08 (7:31 am)

Wow, you did an amazing unselfish thing. That little girl owes you her life and should forever be grateful to you. Very special.
P.S. Like the new banner at the top of your blog, too.



posted by: Ramesh Ranganathan (reply)
post date: 08.20.08 (2:13 am)

Kalki, you have touched everyone's heart. This is the most wonderful gift that can be given to god as a thanks giving for your life.
May God bless you.
Btw, its hard to believe you are a TG. You look really beautiful :)




posted by: (reply)
post date: 08.20.08 (8:28 pm)

do this good things and counsel the youth in the right direction and make them to take aright direction what youu have done about the little girl is very much appricaitive



posted by: vennalats@gmail.com (reply)
post date: 08.20.08 (10:49 pm)

hi akka i saw the article in eenadu telugu news paper abt you and selvi. very good akka as human and womanly you have done great work.



posted by: shalinisrinivasan1985 (reply)
post date: 08.21.08 (1:29 am)

Great I salute b4 u



posted by: shalinisrinivasan1985 (reply)
post date: 08.21.08 (1:31 am)

i salute before you .sister will u be my mentor



posted by: kalki (reply)
post date: 08.24.08 (7:18 pm)

Reply to: shalinisrinivasan1985
Thank you for your appreciation Shalini.



posted by: kalki (reply)
post date: 08.24.08 (7:19 pm)

Reply to: Vennalats
Thank you vennala.




posted by: kalki (reply)
post date: 08.24.08 (7:20 pm)

Reply to: Ramesh Ranganathan

I did my duty as a good human being should do. I am glad God gave me this opportunity.




posted by: kalki (reply)
post date: 08.24.08 (7:22 pm)

Reply to: OldSchool
Hi dear, thank you for your wonderful words and encouragement. :)



posted by: kalki (reply)
post date: 08.24.08 (7:23 pm)

Reply to: PirateGirl
Thanks for the appreciative words dear friend.



posted by: kalki (reply)
post date: 08.24.08 (7:24 pm)

Reply to: OldSchool
Hi dear, thank you for your wonderful words and encouragement. :)



posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 08.25.08 (5:13 am)

Reply to: kalki

You are most welcome - and thank you for all you are doing :)



posted by: kalki (reply)
post date: 08.27.08 (4:05 am)

Reply to: kurtmaddox

Thank you for the appreciation Kurt. I believe it is my duty to rescue another human being from misery.



posted by: Tooweaktoname (reply)
post date: 08.30.08 (12:52 am)

Hey I read your article in the newspaper and I am amazed at the strength you have. You are truly a beautiful soul and I hope it motivates more people like it has motivated me.



posted by: LadyG (reply)
post date: 08.30.08 (9:49 pm)

Kalki, what a beautiful thing that you did for this child, you are now her mother. What a loving act to do for someone really in need. May God continue to bless you always. You are truly an inspiration for how we should all help those in need.



posted by: sumangali (reply)
post date: 09.08.08 (12:34 am)

hai kalki hats of to you you have done the great job you have shown a way to all our transgender community



posted by: Kram1000 (reply)
post date: 09.08.08 (4:38 am)

Hi Kalki
That is a very moving storey.
Selvi looks so much healthier now.
I hope it all works out




posted by: franc (reply)
post date: 09.11.08 (2:33 am)

hi kalki...
I read the article about u n selvi in the newspaper.
Proud to have u as ma friend.
Take care
And I have changed the name of my blog
it's now francis-barclay in blogger
besides, I have joined a daily in bangalore.



posted by: shajibaby (reply)
post date: 09.17.08 (2:06 am)

Hai Kalki,
sweet greetings,
I read the article about you in the Manorama daily.
I am really proud to have such a daring lady in my country.
You are so beautiful and you have a loving motherly nature in you, that's the reason you could do all these.
Take care
I'm realy inspired by the testemony of you and I hope I would be able to support you in some way in the future.
Expecting to hear from u more.



posted by: seer (reply)
post date: 09.24.08 (3:26 am)

Wow.



posted by: shichigatsu (reply)
post date: 09.29.08 (4:52 pm)

Dear Kalki, that's a really big thing you've done for Selvi and you have to be proud of yourself. There's nothing wrong with that. You've raised a child that's other parents', it's a real sacrifice of your time and love.



posted by: meenakshisundaram (reply)
post date: 09.30.08 (6:50 am)

i read about not kalki mother of selvi ...this ths power of thaimai.. really nice .....u have to publish this article other megazines like anadavikatan .. kumudam...it will educate so many people



posted by: thangavel (reply)
post date: 10.16.08 (7:14 am)

wanted your peaceful truly friendship



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post date: 10.16.08 (7:14 am)

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posted by: gayathri (reply)
post date: 01.12.09 (12:55 am)

kalki akka u r very great.



posted by: gayathri (reply)
post date: 01.12.09 (1:03 am)

kalki akka u r very great.



posted by: sumesh (reply)
post date: 04.06.09 (4:01 am)

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Neenga Manitha Neyam Kondavar.. Kadavulukku oppanavar.God Bless U...



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post date: 04.06.09 (4:11 am)

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Neenga Manitha Neyam Kondavar.. Kadavulukku oppanavar.God Bless U...

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